When to Start Involving Your Family
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by Jodi Freedman
My husband once worked for a company where every new employee had to spend a week in every department (he loved driving the forklift!) in order to truly understand the company. I think that this approach really makes sense. How could I really tell volunteers about the positions I was asking them to fill if I had never done the job? Of course, in order for me to go in after hours, that meant that my kids got to come along for the ride! At the time, my sons were aged 8 and 6 and my daughter was 3.
This was their first introduction into formal volunteering and I am not sure who enjoyed it more: the residents of the nursing home, my children or me! It is so amazing to watch your kids turn into little angels and think about other people! Don’t get me wrong; there was definitely some complaining on the way to and from volunteering! It wasn’t like the movies, where lovely music plays and everyone eagerly jumps at the chance to go play Bingo or serve meals or do art with the “old people”. (My kids’ words, not mine. Please don’t take offense!) As time went by, even my normally shy 8 year old was comfortably cutting up food for people and the younger two were pushing people to activities in their wheelchairs! It was a truly wonderful experience for all of us and an important lesson about the importance of getting people involved at a young age.
An article in Compassionate Kids states that this gives children an opportunity to learn about giving back and the importance of doing so. That was how I felt about the experience and what it did for my children. It showed my children some of my values and how volunteering supports these values. I also think that children who volunteer will be more likely to become adults who volunteer.
Obviously, not all organizations are able to accomodate children. I wouldn’t want to call a helpline and have the volunteer telling me to hang on while she helps her kids out! However, I urge all of you to look for ways to incorporate families into the volunteer opportunities at your organization. It is a truly amazing experience. And for all of you who volunteer yourselves, consider bringing your children along when it is appropriate. They just may shock you!
For other info. on volunteering with children, I enjoyed this article.
Jodi Freedman is a Major Gifts Specialist at the Maine Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association.
